About Man

Oprah wrote this about men :

If a man wants you, nothing can keep
him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can
make him stay.

Stop making excuses for a man and his
behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to
save you from heartache.

Stop trying to change yourself for a
relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before
you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man
was not treating you as you deserve
then heck on, you can't "be friends".
A friend wouldn't instreat a friend.
Don't settle.

If you feel like he is stringing you
along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will
get better".
You'll be mad at yourself a year later
for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a
relationship is you.

Avoid men who've got a bunch of
children by a bunch of different
women.
He didn't marry them when he got them
pregnant, why would he treat you any
differently?

Always have your own set of friends
separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy
treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He
will use it against you later.
Your cannot change a man's behavior.
Change comes from within.

Don't EVER make him feel he is more
important than you are .... even if he
has more education or in a better job.
Do not make him into a quasi-god. He
is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.

Never borrow someone else's man.
If he cheated with you, he`ll cheat on
you.
A man will only treat you the way you
ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.

You should not be the one doing all
the bending .... compromise is a two
way street.
Your need time to heal between
rerlationships .... there is nothing
cute about baggage ...
Deal with your issues before pursuing
a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to
COMPLETE you ... a relationship
consists of two WHOLE individuals ...
look for someone complimentary ... not
supplementary.

Dating is fun ... even if he doesn't
turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes ...
when a man always know where you are,
and you're always readily available to
him - he takes it for granted.

Never move into his mother's house
Never co-sign for a man.
Don't fully commit to a man who
doesn't give you everything that you
need.
Keep him in you rader but get to know
others.